How Do We Know If The Opportunity Is Worth It?
Unsure if a promotion is worth it?
You're not alone. Millions of people are in the same boat, trying to figure out if a promotion is really what they want. It's a big decision, with lots of factors to consider. That's why we wrote this blog - to help you make the right choice for you and your family.
Inside, you'll find everything you need to know about promotions - from what they entail to how they can impact your life. We want to help you make the most informed decision possible, so you can feel confident in your choice.
Continue reading to learn everything there is to know about promotions!
I recall a mentee reaching out to me a few years ago, seeking advice and direction on how to get a promotion. He was a consultant whose wife had recently given birth. I inquired as to why he desired a raise. He stated that he needed to increase his income. I inquired as to why he felt the need to earn more money. He answered by explaining that his family requires a larger home. When I asked him where he was now residing, he stated that he and his wife live in a four-bedroom house with their infant. When I asked why he needed a larger home when it's only him, his wife, and their newborn, he said he doesn't. He stated that his wife desired a larger home. I reminded him that a promotion comes with more responsibility, the possibility of travel, and less time for his family. He admitted that he understood, but the pressure from his wife to keep up with the Joneses was too much.
How many of you have been in similar situations?
The allure of a promotion, a more prestigious title, a corner office, a nicer car, a larger home, better vacations, and acceptance from those around you can be powerful. Is the opportunity, however, worthwhile?
What if you worked your tail off to get promotions so you could provide for your family with more money? There is nothing wrong with that right?
What if, as you progressed through the company, you had to put in longer hours despite earning greater money? That means less time with your family. Yes, the family may live in a larger and better home, wear nicer clothes, drive fancy cars, and so on. However, you will not be present to share it with them.
What if the pool boy began to fill in for you in some way?
This has happened!
What if, with all the hard work you were putting in, which kept you away from your spouse and children, you suddenly learn that your spouse met someone else, someone who was there when you were not. And wants a divorce?
What if, your children don't realize the sacrifices you made for them, and all they remember are the birthdays, school recitals, school events, and other major occasions in their life that you missed?
What if, in the pursuit of a better life for your family, you overwork yourself and develop health problems, or worse, die of a heart attack?
The quest for material goods can be extremely rewarding at times. However, the ramifications could be far worse.