A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect. You get what you tolerate

A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect. You get what you tolerate.

Setting clear boundaries isn't just about protecting your time and energy—it's about establishing your value in both personal and professional relationships. When you tolerate behavior that crosses those boundaries, it sends the message that it's acceptable. Over time, this can lead to burnout, stress, and strained relationships.

Respect yourself enough to know when to say no and when to stand firm. Remember, you teach others how to treat you by what you accept. Let's prioritize our well-being and never settle for less than we deserve.

#Leadership #Boundaries #Respect #Wellbeing #ProfessionalGrowth

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